Metamorphosis

Can you ask an egg to be a bird? Yes.
Can you ask a caterpillar to be a butterfly? Yes.
Can you ask a fire to be ashes? Yes.
Can you ask a rabbit to be a lizard? No. It can try all it wants. But it can't.

Surrender

"If you love them, let them go. If they come back, they were always yours. If they don't, they never were."

I let go not because I no longer want you, but because you need me to. I let go so that you can be free. Be happy. I love you.